I know for a fact that most the time I don't act my age. After all, I am almost 25, stuck in a community collage and jobless. I will also admit that I am not the easiest person to get along with. (I have BPD, if you don't know what that is, google, but it is basically a clinical term for being a bitch.) But I thought childlike bullshit behavior had long left my life.
So, here goes a little something that has been bothering me. Last semester, I made this friend, we'll call her X, and we hit it off right away. We had a lot in common, the only thing that made me nervous was that she's 19. Drama just seems to follow people just out of high school. She even let me borrow a semi-expensive camera of hers, that i needed for class, when mine went to shit in the middle of the semester, to which I was to return at the start of this semester. Seems like great friend right? Well, maybe I should have payed attention to the little things. In the middle of the semester, she started a fight with this girl, just for going to Chinatown without her, and they don't speak anymore. She only knew this girl for about 8 months. (History repeats itself?) Anyway, back to me :). Back in January, my phone started going to shit and it started to call random people, even when it was just sitting on a table. I also had a problem receiving texts, I would get them the day after or not at all. So, I kept it off most of the time. Around this time I created a new AIM, because someone hacked my old one and I could be bothered having to fix it, it just seemed easier to create a new one. Anyway, I posted this on facebook, but I forgot to tell X because she doesn't have one. So, two weeks ago, when I finally got my new phone, I had at least 60 text messages from her. At first they where all like "where have you been?" "why aren't you answering me?", ect. Then they got more threatening-ish, "why haven't you answered me, bitch" "do you expect me to believe you fell off the face of the earth" "i have some of the same friends as you, i'll find you" WTF? I was so shocked by this. I just decided to pretend that i never got them and I would settle it with her when class started, because i knew i had a class with her. So, on the first day of class she kinda ignored me, and i didn't what to start shit with her. After class I said "hey x, here's your camera". She looked at me scoffed said "thanks" and gave me a nasty fucking look. I was shocked, I didnt know what to do so I just smiled and walk to the Professor because I had to talk to her about something.
I just would like to know if i was in the wrong. Because I don't think I was. I mean I could have send her an email, but I did add her to my new AIM and I never saw her online because i would have explained everything then. I also know that there is two sides to every story. I'm just stating facts as I see them. I'm stuck with her in class until May, it's a photo class, so it wont be easy to ignore her, which I'm thinking is my best bet because I think if I'm not in the fault here, she'll just do this again.
Advice anyone?
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